What is a Russian wedding without a fight? It would seem funny and scary, but nevertheless this trouble occurs at almost every such event. Is it possible to avoid a fight at weddings? Indeed, because of this, more and more newlyweds are denying themselves and guests a banquet. Of course, if the guests are chaste and calm personalities, then this embarrassment can be completely avoided. And if among close friends or relatives there is a person who, after a glass, turns into a rowdy, what should I do? Do not invite him completely or abruptly change the circle of his communication? Of course not.
Fighting at weddings is an unpleasant moment not only for young people, but also for guests. There are times when people who have registered their marriage immediately leave for a honeymoon, thereby freeing themselves from possible oddities at their wedding. But not all families do this, most want to celebrate their holiday cheerfully - with relatives and friends. To avoid a fight at weddings, you need to follow some tips:
- To begin with, rid yourself of the thought that an unpleasant curiosity can occur at a holiday. A wedding is a fabulous and joyful event that no one can overshadow. If you constantly get hung up on the fact that funny things at weddings are inevitable, then it will be so;
- a good option to limit yourself and guests from unnecessary scandals may be an invitation to the triumph of the special guard, which, in which case, could prevent or extinguish the conflict;
- so that the oddities at weddings do not happen, you need to exclude from the script games or remarks that may well provoke a scandal and a fight. If there are rowdy people among the guests and “wave their fists” lovers, then you should not hold contests where there are moments of rivalry.
Another method of dealing with unnecessary scandals and fights is the exclusion among the guests of the provocateurs themselves. In other words, you don’t have to invite people at all who can ruin the whole holiday. You should not think that by refusing you will offend a person, perhaps it will be so, but this is your wedding, and it is necessary to conduct it the way you want young people, not their guests. But nevertheless, if a rowdy needs to be invited, in case of kinship, for example, then an experienced toastmaster can help here, who must be warned of possible embarrassments in advance and familiarized with a fight lover.
A wedding is a touching event that should be remembered for a long time. Although this celebration, unfortunately, is not the only one for a lifetime, but still some moments are postponed in memory. The bride’s snow-white dress, numerous smiles, the unsurpassed beauty of the registration room, confused words of the groom and the exhilarating speech of the priest at the wedding, all this can be reflected only once in a lifetime. That is why preparations for the wedding should be carried out carefully.
Fights at weddings are a fairly common feature, someone did not like the guests' speech from the groom, someone incorrectly responded about the mother of the bride. In this case, there may be various incidents. There are funny things at weddings, but they can be completely avoided so that they do not turn into mass fights. To do this, you should not provoke rowdy people, try to make contests only such that they cause laughter in every guest.
If there are only respectable people among the guests, then there can be no talk of fights at all. Basically, only fights are started that consider them a sign of any Russian holiday. In this case, you should seriously talk with the person and convince him of the wrong. It is necessary to discuss with the guests in advance that this wedding is intended primarily for the young, and spoiling the celebration will be completely inappropriate, ugly and incorrect.