Someone likes to be surrounded by many friends. Someone dreams of a large family with a horde of small children and a bunch of periodically visiting relatives. Many of us constantly communicate with colleagues at work, consulting with them on all matters of personal life ... But there are people who can say with confidence: "I am a loner in life."
What does this mean for such people? What is a loner in life? Such people do not need anyone: no friends, no family, no partner. They believe that they cope with everything on their own. They think that only their opinion is the only correct one, they do not want to hear any advice. They do not want anyone to call and disturb their peace. They are so cozy and comfortable. They have their own small and at the same time such a huge inner world, into which they do not want to let anyone in, because they think that as soon as someone else appears in it, it will surely deteriorate.
They will definitely have a family, only it will not consist of a handful of relatives who come from time to time without warning. In their family, they are ready to see only themselves and their children. Well, if you touch women, then the life of a single mother is actually not so bad as it seems to everyone. Such ladies believe that they owe nothing to anyone but their children, of course. They are sure that no one will annoy them with betrayal and bad mood, family quarrels and scandals.
Why is it easier for them? Some of them were simply disappointed in people. They began to believe that all their actions were stupid and selfish. They narrowed their social circle to a minimum and fenced themselves and their lives with an imaginary wall when they realized that all their problems do not happen because of themselves, but because of strangers. To prevent this from happening, they excluded strangers from their lives.
Many people think that a loner in life is some kind of punishment sent from above, they don’t understand that people with similar views choose this path themselves, they are fenced off from society by a thick wall so as not to see and hear the horror happening outside it .
A wolf chooses a similar life. One fine day, he simply leaves a flock of disgusting him in order to live according to his own laws, so as not to obey outside opinion. He creates his family, and only his orders dominate in it. He is also a loner in life.
What is wrong with this, if a person, while not bothering anyone, simply lives his life and does not crawl into someone else's? However, at all times, such people did not like and were afraid. They were not understood and wereware. Nobody knew anything about them, because they did not tell anyone about themselves. That's why they were considered somehow not quite normal, they were not loved for this reason. Such people have always been too complicated for everyone to understand.
Who are these people? You can call them anything you like: silent intellectuals, just eccentrics, slightly abnormal - anyway. In fact, they are called themselves simply: "a loner in life."
The worldview of such people can change over the years both in one direction and the other. They are just so comfortable at some point in their lives. They are so calm, comfortable and cozy. They believe that this is the only way they can be sure of their future, that no one will ruin it for them.