Every woman dreams of meeting the perfect man. Each to his chosen one has his own requirements, but without exception, everyone needs first of all attention and love. It often happens that, having become interested in a man, a woman does not feel reciprocity. How to attract attention and "do not fall into the mud"?
First you need to prepare for the fact that you are waiting for various difficulties. But you should not be afraid and wait a long time. Otherwise, another, more decisive girl may conquer your chosen one.
How to attract the attention of men
First of all, you need to learn as much information about him as possible: work, hobbies, interests, preferences, favorite places, food, and so on. This will help to make a psychological portrait of a man and look at him from the side. It is very important to understand what attracts him to women. When you find this out, go on to find places for “random” meetings.
In order for a person to notice us, it is necessary from time to time to catch his eye. It is best to start going to the places that your chosen one regularly visits. It can be a park, fitness club, pool, grocery store and so on. Sign up for his favorite gym. This is useful for the figure, and will help you look at the man.
Now that you know where to find your chosen one, another question arises before you: how to draw attention to yourself and at the same time not seem intrusive? A man should not understand that you are trying to seduce him. Let him think that you met by chance.
In order to get acquainted, you can resort to a well-known female trick: to fall next to a man or to drop something. As practice shows, in 99% of cases this works without fail.
You already know how to draw attention to yourself, it remains to figure out how to keep it.
Proper communication
One of the basic rules of communication with a man is not to show that you are smarter than him. Representatives of the stronger sex love to feel superior and significant. It will not be superfluous to ask a man for advice in a given situation. Try to always look natural.
Falling in love with a man can be very difficult. He must feel that you understand him and need him. Try to communicate more often on different topics. The only thing you should not talk about is your past relationship. Otherwise, you risk becoming just a friend, and this is completely useless. Communication should be pleasant and give pleasure to both of you. A little flattery will also not hurt. The main thing is not to overdo it and not begin to praise those qualities that are not there.
Give the man the opportunity to plan your joint vacation. It is very important to give him reason to think and take care of you. Thus, he will begin to feel a little responsibility for you, and this is the first step to a serious relationship.
Give your lover some inexpensive, but necessary thing. For example, a rare instance for a collection or fishing tackle. This will be another reason to remember about you.
Do not forget that the path to the man’s heart lies through his stomach. Learn about his culinary preferences first. Cook his favorite meal or bake a pie. It will be great if you treat not only him, but also a few more people. Men love when others praise their women.
When the relationship is just beginning, a few fans will help strengthen it. A couple of calls and bouquets will make your chosen one believe in your exclusivity and a little jealous.
Now you know how to draw attention to yourself and win the heart of a man. Be always in a good mood, smile. Cheerful and cheerful people always attract others. It is easy to get acquainted with them and walk together through life.