How to prove your love to a guy ... a question or instruction?

While reading the headline, it will seem to someone that the question is addressed to the girl, but I just read it “like a man”, perhaps that’s why someone will be disappointed without receiving accurate and comprehensive instructions on what the girl should do to prove her love to a guy. I read it that way, and therefore I apologize to those whose worldly curiosity, scientific thirst or the needs of professional growth remained unsatisfied. Take this irony for granted to the issue that we will try to comprehend.

Or is there another option ... read it all: both boys and girls, because what is the difference in principle in the methods of proving your love to someone, you see ... The question is not at all about addressing.

Starting this article, I thought it was a question for someone, or just something narrative-rhetorical, which is used only to indicate the topic of conversation - how to prove love ... Or maybe someone wants to get step-by-step instructions ...

So we are arranged that sometimes we try to hide the questions that are most important to ourselves for nothing meaningful and attention-grabbing slogans and battered clichés. Why is this happening? I do not think that anyone will be able to answer this question, and the point here is not only a lack of intelligence or life experience. In my opinion, the problem lies in the problem itself, it belongs to the category of those which, by the very fact of their statement or formulation, inevitably raise an even greater number of questions. So, how to prove your love to a guy ... Does something in this phrase remind you of something rational, such that applying it to such an intimate phenomenon as love is somehow awkward?

Every day, hundreds, sometimes thousands of young people — students who are completely different in their cares, thoughts, feelings, and generally life attitudes — pass before my eyes. I see them at lectures, where their views are lost in mass, at seminars, where I see everything and understand their relationship to each other, I see kissers sitting on the windowsills and at the tables of the student cafes. I see and understand how many relationships called love exist in these people. And are they really, at some stage of the relationship, only concerned with proving their love or looking for ways to prove it? I admit that you can repeatedly and diligently try to prove mathematical theorems, you can prove something in court ... but here, how can this expression be applied to the place at all?

There is another question, but how much time do you need to prove? Some of the great ones said that this should last a lifetime, perhaps, but then the question itself loses its meaning, because the proof of love becomes the meaning of life. And here something reminiscent of the answer is asked: to find a proof of love, you just need to live for this person to whom you need to prove it.

For example, in order to know how to prove to a guy his love, he needs, first of all, to take care of himself. It may sound paradoxical, but this is not a simple judgment, it is a well-formed belief. Why do I say that? But because I thought about WHAT should break or overcome this evidence? Marc Anthony and Caesar, proving their love for Cleopatra, for many years sent thousands of people to die in the long wars between Rome and Egypt, the crafty and mercantile hunchback Talleyrand proved his love by “moving” the borders of entire states in Napoleonic Europe, while not forgetting to replenish his moshna , and there are many more examples of such “evidence”. What needs to be done, how to prove your love to a guy, a modern, young guy who has not yet achieved Caesar's fame and Talleyrand’s wealth? I think, first of all, you don’t have to think about it at all. You just need to love - in words, you have to feel sorry - sincerely, you have to serve - without self-humiliation and servility, and then they will understand you, then they will believe, then you will prove it!

I look at my students - and I’m convinced that they are different, but they can prove and love, and it turns out better for those who do not prove this as the notorious theorem. Their eyes, joyful looks and smiles, kisses on the go, some completely elusive gestures of attention speak of this.

In general, in order to answer this question (if it is a question), it is better to formulate it from the opposite, then you can get a more accurate and quite practical answer to the question of how to prove your love to a guy. When you find out what it takes to be hated, turned into an outcast, an idol of evil and vice, then you will find the answer to the problem in the headline.

Love without proving ... and unprovable love to all of you!


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