If the square of the planets is associated with internal changes caused by pain due to internal tension and frustration, the focus of the opposition is usually on the outer space, on people and the world, and all conflicts with such opposition occur outside. The manifestation of the Venus-Neptune opposition in your life will probably look like suspicion and distrust of others, possibly based on actual experience and recollection of an event in which you yourself became a victim of deception. Since thoughts, as you know, are material, you project your suspicion and suspiciousness onto the outside world, and therefore, sooner or later, paradoxically, you will become a victim of deception, which you try so hard to avoid.
Aspects of Venus
Venus represents our feminine or sensual nature. She rules two areas of life: love and money. Venus controls our feelings, what we value and enjoy, as well as grace and charm. Venus rules art, love, and romance, beauty, entertainment, and comfort.
We look at Venus in the map to determine the events related to our relationship, whether it is stability, conquest or adventure, as well as what brings us the greatest pleasure in life. Due to the feminine nature of this planet, the Venus-Neptune opposition in women affects life and fate much more strongly.
Aspects of Neptune
At a distance of almost 2.8 billion miles from the Sun, we need a telescope to get at least some idea of Neptune. Like his neighbors Uranus and Pluto, he controls the invisible aspects of the personality, the forces of the subconscious: dreams, fantasies, and even delusions.
In Roman knowledge, Neptune is the god of the seas. Esoteric and spiritual spheres are also under the control of Neptune. Here we must believe in what may be called fantasy. Every time you make a business card or use the law of attraction, you work with these Neptunian vibrations. This is largely a “male” planet, because if the opposition of Neptune-Venus interferes in the relationship between a guy and a girl, this intervention is especially acute.
Venus and Neptune in the natal chart
Venus opposite Neptune in the natal chart creates a struggle for what you most want in life, for relationships, harmony and, possibly, money and luxury. All this is achievable, but you need to work hard to overcome the frustration and breakdown in relationships and finances.
Emotional features
You may suffer from low self-esteem, especially in your youth. You may fear that you are not worthy enough to have an affectionate and caring partner who loves you for who you are. You can end up making big sacrifices to save your ideal partner, but ultimately feel miserable or be used. Also, you can probably fantasize about your partner and try to remake it, and then be disappointed in it.
Love and relationships with people
The internal pressure created by the opposition Venus-Neptune affects the stability and support of your emotional level, and your mood can suffer greatly from this. Obviously, this will affect your intimate relationships and can lead to deception and intrigue (especially on the personal front). The “enemy” that you often see from the outside is actually hidden within yourself. The Neptunian images of the victim and the martyr can take possession of you or project onto others, in the latter case you can turn into a tormentor, using his sexual power for his own self-affirmation.
You may like sensual concerns, but it can sow seeds of self-destruction within you, as you are likely to quickly become addicted to sex, alcohol, and, in the worst case, drugs. You probably need more clarity and honesty in your relationship, otherwise the negative aspects of the Venus-Neptune opposition will manifest themselves in deception, betrayal and intrigue. Marriage can be a difficult battlefield and can lead to stress. Sometimes it is perceived by others as “antagonistic vibration”, with which it is unpleasant to remain in close contact for a long time.
Human self-esteem
Such disappointment in your love life is associated with the same problems as any financial loss, such as exposure to fraud or blind investment in dubious projects. This is especially true for the opposition Venus-Neptune in men.
The problem begins with your own image, your own perception of yourself. Efforts to improve self-esteem are very important to achieve your goals. Neptune rules the stage and screen, mirrors, the ocean and spirituality. This gives you clues on how exactly you could increase your self-esteem and self-esteem.
You can find love for yourself by changing your lifestyle towards a more spiritual approach. Perhaps shooting yourself in front of a mirror or a webcam will give you confidence. Dance, music, surfing or swimming are activities that can help improve mood and self-esteem. You can try to decorate your body with jewelry or tattoos, or pay special attention to fashion and cosmetics. Even decorating your home or workspace will replace Neptune's troubling illusions with a sense of beauty and self-confidence.
Opposition of two planets in the natal chart
Celebrities with the Venus-Neptune opposition in the natal chart include: Kian Egan, Jimmy Brian, John Frawley, Debra Winger, George (Duke of Kent), Candice Reed, Mia Farrow, Robin Arthur, Venus Williams, Patrick McNee, Tammy Wynette, Scott Hicks, Patricia Neal.
Transit of two planets
Transit in the opposition Venus-Neptune may have several meanings. Transit Venus across from Neptune can cause problems with relationships and finances. You are more susceptible to this confusing and deceptive influence and can become a victim of charlatans who seek to take advantage of your good and trusting character. People may perceive your sympathy as weakness.
Your penchant for idealization and gullibility can lead to disappointment in love or to big financial losses that will have an equally harmful effect on your unstable self-esteem. You should be more aware of the potential dangers of any offers, schemes or dating sites. You should not be generous in this period in order to avoid serious consequences.
Be careful in your relationships, because during this period you may be too unrealistic in your ideas about love and relationships. You are prone to self-deception, so everything may not be as it seems at first glance. Do not start a new relationship now - romance will quickly dry up, and the sediment from possible deception will remain for a long time. Enjoy the Venus-Neptune opposition period while reading poetry, listening to music and walking in nature.
Although this is not the best time to find the perfect partner or investment, you can satisfy your need for love and joy in other ways that have fewer risks. You can experiment with style, hair and makeup. Music, dancing, art, or visiting movies would bring a pleasant flair of dreams, joy, and fantasy to your life.
Opposition Venus-Neptune in the synastry
When Venus meets Neptune in the synastry, it is a matter of spiritual affairs. You probably met each other when you were looking for the relationship of your dreams. We all have the concept of an ideal partner, the dream of a knight in shining armor, with whom we would become heroes of a fabulous love story. When someone from Neptune touches the aspect of your Venus, you feel as if your dreams have come true.
With this aspect, there is a tendency to see each other in a better light. The understated or exaggerated traits that usually confuse you are ignored in favor of the person’s best qualities. The man of Venus is inclined to project his fantasies on the man of Neptune, giving him the qualities of his ideal. Neptune's man may or may not possess these qualities, but tends to play along a little to please the man of Venus.
The couple finds themselves in an alien world and fantasy projected onto relationships. In the future, this can cause serious problems, since Neptune may somehow make a mistake, which leads to disappointment on the part of man Venus. Venus’s refusal to see Neptune as it really is cannot last long, because in fact no one is perfect, so Neptune will eventually fall from the pedestal. Venus women in opposition to Neptune men artificially holds him so high.
Another danger of this aspect is overt deception. Yes, Neptune feels the pressure, embodying the reality of the fantasy of man Venus. Like Venus, Neptune seeks to please. This desire to preserve the imagination of Venus can lead Neptune to lies and deceit. On an intuitive level, Venus may feel that something is going wrong, but subconsciously prefers to ignore these inconsistencies, thereby closing her eyes to the truth, so as not to destroy her own dream. Usually, Venus sooner or later realizes that Neptune is a man and he is not perfect, and this can lead to disappointment and a broken heart. If we are talking about the Venus of a guy in opposition to the Neptune of a girl, it can be a romantic and naive young man who fell in love with a fallen woman, but did not realize the full depth of her fall.
Another manifestation of this aspect is the scenario of a savior sacrifice. Venus can be attracted by Neptune because it needs "help." He may be an alcoholic. Perhaps he is an addict. Perhaps he has unresolved problems from the past that he constantly faces. Neptune plays on the sympathy and sensitivity of Venus, stimulating her desire to "save" him. This can be dangerous because relationships can become unhealthy and lead to mutual dependence.
Other aspects of planetary interaction
The previous description is especially applicable to the tough aspects of the synastry (conjunction, square, opposition) between Venus and Neptune. This also applies to the opposition Venus-Neptune in the solarium. The harmonious aspects (sextile and trine) are less intense and contribute to the positive manifestations of these two planets, such as compassion, forgiveness and a sense of unity.