Only the elite possess charisma, and millions dream of it. A charismatic person is an inborn leader and favorite of the gods who leads people. It has a magnet inside him that attracts other people.
Charismatic - which one?
Translated from the ancient Greek word "charisma" means "divine gift", "grace", "talent". To consider yourself a person deprived of any talent means to put a cross on yourself and on your whole future. Charisma to a greater or lesser extent, of course, everyone has. Not a single person has yet been born who would be deprived of God's gift. Indeed, in each there is a spiritual beginning, which means there are certain talents.
There is an opinion that a person is charismatic - this is necessarily either a politician or a star of show business. In other words, it is the presence of a large audience that is an indicator of its uniqueness and selectivity. But such an opinion is fundamentally wrong.
A charismatic personality has a very strong inner core and bold desires, inside it always burns a fire that attracts others, if not forever, then for a long time. These are people who are attractive and attractive with their external and internal qualities.
How to become charismatic?
As mentioned earlier, inside each of us there is a spark from birth, but due to circumstances or a certain upbringing, it fades over the years. However, not all is lost! Through long training, charisma can be tried to work out for yourself.
The very first thing is to develop confidence, since it is difficult to imagine an insecure and shy charismatic. It is also important to have your own personal opinion and not be shy to express it, always be responsible for your actions and not be afraid to take responsibility for them. Initiative, ability and desire to take up the solution to the problem first, without waiting for support or help from outside - these are the hallmarks of any leader.
It is also advisable to learn to laugh at yourself, thus demonstrating that you, like any other, sometimes make mistakes or mistakes. Having accepted your mistakes and learned to come out of any difficult situation with humor, you will come one step closer to your goal. After all, a charismatic person is also an optimist who is able to look at life and some life difficulties through the prism of positiveness and find something good and useful even in a negative situation.
And of course, in order to please people, you need people to like you. It is necessary to learn to listen, to be partial to other people's problems. In communication, you need to build trust and be able not only to demonstrate your best side, but also to show the interlocutor his own merits, to let him know that he is very interesting to you and his opinion is important.
The most important thing is to always be yourself and in any situation, not try to be who you really are not. After all, people immediately recognize lies and pretense. Positive, openness and unquenchable love of life and people will certainly help you find charisma in yourself.