Sooner or later, many girls are faced with this problem: how nice to send a guy ? Moreover, the key word here is “beautiful” because sending a guy rudely and primitively is easy. But why do this? Everything can be resolved in a civilized manner , and the severance of relations as well. True, sometimes it is necessary to culturally send a guy with whom there was no relationship, but he is very keen on them. This article is a practical guide on how to properly send a guy .
So, if you didn’t have a relationship as such, but he persistently demonstrates his sympathy and hints that it would be nice to go to a closer relationship, then it’s correct to explain that the relationship will not be possible using one of the following methods.
At a personal meeting, say approximately the following phrase: “You are a very good person, you will definitely be appreciated by another girl. You just are not my man. ” This method is suitable if a person, in general, behaves intelligently, but does not understand that his signs of attention are unpleasant to you.
If the young man does not understand the correct phrases and does not behave quite adequately, then you can use not quite “beautiful” methods. For example, such.
- Do not answer his calls, and then call back at three o’clock in the morning, do not come to the appointments or arrive two hours late, and even throw a scandal about the fact that he chose such an unfortunate place for the meeting where you could not to get there.
- You can also demand gifts that the gentleman obviously can not afford, for example, a cute little yacht!
- You can still invite the annoying gentleman to visit you, and you can leave by leaving yourself a bunch of girlfriends who will try to explain your attitude to the young man.
- Acting in such a way that the admirer is ashamed of you: for example, sitting at a table in a cafe, blowing your nose loudly and coughing. But only if you are not afraid for your reputation.
- In every possible way to demonstrate the presence of a bunch of fans with whom you allegedly maintain a relationship: when you call him, send SMS, you can even consult an unpleasant gentleman: “Do you think it is better to write to Vasya that I really want him or that I want him very - very - highly? But what should Pete write? ”
- You can go on a date with your grandmother.
- You can discuss with the gentleman himself how beautiful it is to send a guy , and then begin to apply the fruits of this “advice” in practice with him.
That's how nice to send a guy! True, the word "beautiful" should be quoted! Most likely, any of these methods will work, and the gentleman will leave you alone.
It is more difficult when the relationship is already there, but they are a burden to you and they must be broken. Here, of course, one must act more subtly and more diplomatically than in the first case. It is important to decide for yourself whether you want to part completely and irrevocably and continue not to maintain relations, or if you want to try to maintain good friendly relations. If there is a desire to communicate further, then the separation should try to soften and culturally send the guy . There are some nuances that should be taken into account before sending a guy nicely.
1) Before you rehearse your words, listen to them as if from the outside.
2) It is necessary to choose the right place for a decisive conversation. This is best done in a "neutral" territory. For example, in a cafe (but not in the one with which romantic moments are connected) or in a park. It is impossible to conduct a conversation at home or at home, as well as at work.
3) Talk should be extremely honest. This does not mean that you need to tell about everything that does not suit you in it, but also to say that it is perfect and the whole point is not worth you. You can, for example, say that in your relationship there is no longer the previous “fire” or that you cannot give the young man the feelings and relationships that he deserves, and be burdened by this.
If the young man still offers you to think and not break off relations, and you categorically do not want to think about it, as well as in vain to reassure him, then you can say a phrase that will surely discourage the gentleman from continuing the relationship: “I realized that until now I love my ex-boyfriend. ” This, of course, is unpleasant, but effective.