Some people never go unnoticed. It seems that inside them is hidden a powerful magnet that attracts others. It is impossible to understand the reason for this. An ordinary person with an ordinary appearance causes increased interest in people. Absolutely everyone is drawn to it. Everyone wants to be his friend.
What is magnetism?
The natural magnetism of a person is the ability to cause the location of others. Attract their friendship, trust and love. The ability to influence and manipulate them.
The magnetism of a person helps him achieve goals easily and quickly. Such people are successful, they can easily find a common language even with conflicting leaders and are able to completely subordinate them to their influence.
When a person with magnetism begins to speak, everyone around them immediately becomes silent. Usually he does not even raise his voice and leads his story rather quietly. And the listeners try not to breathe so as not to miss a single word.
People with magnetism are always calm and confident. They are not nervous and excited. Anyone who is nearby feels their inner strength. It does not manifest itself openly; it will not work to notice it in actions or eyes. However, it is also impossible not to feel it.
They speak a little and always on business. The interlocutors are listening carefully. Under the outward calm of such people, an incredible will is usually hidden. Everyone who communicates with a magnetic person feels that it is impossible to suppress him. The interlocutor himself falls under his influence.
Self-development of magnetism
Some people are lucky and they are born with certain qualities of character. They begin to appear even in childhood and increase in adolescence. Such personalities stand out among peers.
Developing a person’s magnetism on their own is not easy, but possible. To do this, you will have to work hard on yourself, to do self-development. First of all, it should be remembered that others always sensitively feel pretense. You should not try to be someone else. It is important to be yourself. An original is always more valuable than a copy.
You can step back a little from any rule. If there is a person with outstanding qualities, they can be adopted, but over time, changing to fit your image.
The magnetism of a person allows him to become a leader. Moreover, such a person does not even need to compete for seniority. Others intuitively acknowledge this and concede without a struggle. While a screaming, arguing and demanding attention to his person, a person will never achieve the respect of society. Therefore, it is necessary to learn to remain calm and think soberly in any situation. Only losers and wimps fall into hysteria and panic.
Magnetic personalities understand people well and know how to influence them. To learn this, you will need to study a lot of literature on psychology. For example, pay attention to such authors:
- Eric Byrne;
- Tina Sealing;
- Edward de Bono;
- John Gray
- Martin Selingman;
- Alfred Adler;
- Susan Weinshenk;
- Robert Cialdini.
In addition, people should be watched. Listen more, but speak as little as possible.
Getting Rid of Negative Thoughts
Success in life, the ability to convince others and a career depend on the person’s ability to attract and conquer the right people. Each individual has a body, spirit and soul. To succeed, all three of these must be in harmony. Only in this case will a person have a strong positive energy.
In the psychology of oriental and esoteric teachings, various methods are described that allow you to achieve harmony and strengthen the magnetism of a person. Some options are really difficult for most people. For example, one of the ways to develop mental strength and strengthen the spirit involves prolonged solitude and overcoming serious life difficulties.
Not everyone can decide on such tests. Therefore, you can choose another way. You can often hear the saying that the person is what she thinks about. And that is the truth. By directing his thought process in the right direction, a person can evolve to unimaginable heights. And choosing the wrong direction, the individual degrades.
Psychologists advise people who dream of becoming successful to think positively. Radiate only confident and positive mental vibrations. This attracts vibrations of a similar kind. As a result, self-confidence will increase every day. In addition, more and more positive changes will occur in life.
Confidence and Independence
A charismatic person cannot be insecure. Many people try to hide their lack and from this it is even more noticeable to others. It is better to recognize and accept it, trying to gradually work on it.
There are many ways to become a more confident person. For example, go in for sports and improve your body. Usually this significantly raises self-esteem. In addition, you can try such methods:
- every day before going to bed, praise yourself even for small successes;
- never think of yourself in a negative way;
- it is important to realize your strengths, make a list of those that still need to be developed;
- you need to monitor your posture, a confident person does not slouch;
- It is useful to establish new contacts and restore old ones;
- whenever possible to speak publicly;
- during the conversation, look at the person in the point between the eyes, over the bridge of the nose.
In addition, it should be remembered that the magnetism of a person attracts others to him, and not the individual runs after them. Therefore, do not impose and long for other people's society. Over time, they themselves will want to be around. Since a person is always interested in what is inaccessible.
Cleopatra's Secrets
The ancient Egyptian queen was not only a beautiful woman, but also an excellent diplomat. There is evidence that she had a huge influence of politicians. For this, the woman used the following techniques:
- in communication she was friendly with everyone, not singling out anyone especially;
- I was not afraid to seem ridiculous and admit mistakes;
- during the conversation she never interrupted the interlocutor, listening to him very carefully;
- at the next meeting, regardless of when it took place, she remembered all the details of the conversation;
- communicating on important topics she did not flirt and did not pretend;
- allowed others to feel knowledgeable and smart;
- noticed the skills and talents of everyone.
Protection from alien magnetism
The influence of magnetism on man is very great. Some use their talent to the detriment of manipulating other people without a twinge of conscience. In order not to become a victim of such a con man, you need to know how to protect yourself from him.
- When a charismatic person convinces you to do something, you need to take a break and soberly assess the situation. Think about what consequences this could lead to. Agree only if the business is profitable.
- Attention should be paid to the tone and meaning of the statement. Be sure to check the information and not take a word.
- In the event that there is not enough courage and willpower to confront the enemy, pretend that his requests are incomprehensible. Detailed explanations must be requested. This will provide an opportunity to recover and assess the situation.