Since olden times, people celebrated births and weddings with the greatest scope. And christening - this is the celebration of birth, but already in the presence of the heroes of the occasion. And still sitting in the depths of the subconscious mind is the desire precisely for this reason to gather the largest number of people at the table and spend everything with maximum scope. And all the relatives are running around with one vital question about what is needed for the christening of a girl or boy. Although the heroes of the celebration themselves do not always want such a wide and tiring celebration. We will talk here about what you should prepare yourself for and how to make the right decision.
Like a wedding, christening is divided into two stages: a ceremony in the church and festivities. I must say right away that the official part mainly depends on the orders, rules and wishes of the clergy of the particular church that you plan to appeal to. And here practice sometimes comes to opposites. Therefore, do not be lazy and find out directly from the priest, who will perform the sacrament, all the nuances, requirements and wishes.
Feel free to ask in the church about everything you need for the
christening girl. It will not be superfluous if you receive from the priest both spiritual attitudes and explanations about the upcoming event, because very deep and serious things are hidden under the tinsel of the rituals, the understanding of which increases success, lays the right attitude to the life of a new person. Spiritual matter is very subtle: it cannot be acted upon by force, but sometimes it can also be completely involuntarily and unconsciously distorted.
In the modern world, great attention is paid to external attributes. Therefore, it is believed that the main thing that is needed for the girl’s christening is a chic outfit for the child, for his godparents and all those present, as well as expensive things and accessories. The church often goes on this occasion: it allows lush dresses for christening, golden crosses and filming of the sacrament. But there is also a more orthodox attitude: the child in the church should be dressed simply, comfortably, use ordinary things, and only then you can celebrate the holiday in whatever you want and how you want.
Before God, after all, everyone is equal, and the golden cross will not have more power than the copper one. But the mental state of those present can affect the rest of the child’s life to a greater extent than any attribute, photographs and impressions of those present.
Given all this and my own experience, I will say that it will be most practical to use shirts for baptism. Better yet, if they fasten between the legs. In this case, all the necessary parts of the baby’s body are open, and it’s much more convenient for the godfather to keep the baby happy for a long time. And after the end of the sacrament, you can dress up the child and add to the toilet your favorite accessories.
What else do you need for
christening girls? It is not worth wearing hats, shoes and jewelry in the church. They will be asked to take them off. But a big light towel is a must. Consider that your daughter will keep it all his life. If the child is very small, then you can wear white socks and a light cap. When choosing clothes for the baby, think about the fact that
godparents could quickly and easily remove all this. Rarely today is the ritual of completely dipping a child in a font, but everyone has to bare his legs, hands, neck and head. Keep this in mind and warn the godparents about possible difficulties.
And most importantly, don’t worry. The clergy are very calm, patient and accustomed to all these procedures. Even if you have not provided for something, mother or other helpers will help, prompt and contribute to everything. Often even the necessary things - crosses, chains, icons, etc. can be purchased here on the spot. But I try not to take popular signs to heart and do not advise you. It is not always possible to influence circumstances, but you should not be upset because of this and spoil the mood of others.
The main ceremony is over. Now you can relax and rest as your heart desires. Plan everything so that you and your child are comfortable. Good luck