The test winking conspiratorially with two long-awaited stripes, the heart beats faster than usual ... A woman who finds out about pregnancy, opens like a flower under sunny caresses. Pregnancy is a special state of mind and body. Unusual, perfect, in its own way beautiful and, of course, magical.
Every pregnant woman would like to be given a magic wand and a nine-month guide to the Mamomalyshov world. So often we, eternally in a hurry and trying to do a million things in a day, forget about what happiness is. Just happiness. Not from the results of the work done, but by itself. And because of our forgetfulness, pregnancy in many women is a nightmare. And hardly survivors of this nightmare ever have the desire to repeat it.
Pregnancy, as it were, deliberately makes the train of life slow down, rewarding the expectant baby with a belly, inability to walk and run quickly, back pain with prolonged sitting in front of the monitor. She gives invisible wings, which make the movements of the future mother smooth and graceful. But not everyone can feel the fluttering and silkiness of the wings behind their backs. Most tend to grumble and promise themselves that “I will never get pregnant again!” How can I turn the time of waiting for a baby into magic and feel it with every cell of myself and your future crumbs?
Freedom of feeling
During pregnancy, you have to hear more than one horror story. About how, for example, one pregnant woman did not eat meat, and instead of a baby she was born ... a head of cabbage. Or how one expectant mother did not listen to the instructions of doctors and did not drink vitamins, from which she gave birth to transparent crumbs.
If it’s hard for you to get up in the morning and run to take tests, write a refusal to them. If you feel sick from meat, do not eat it. Anyway, it will not have time to reach the place of residence of the baby ...
Listen to yourself and your feelings! Still, the baby lives in you, and not in a car that meets all guest standards. Yes, you may have high blood sugar or a heartbeat. But when they diagnose you, the doctors are guided exclusively by the theory and some practice that fell to them on their exclusively life path. Even doctors who are skeptical and cynical will tell you that not all diseases fit into the framework. That miracles happen and happen often. Your illness may not be a disease at all. A feature of your body.
You do not drink cough syrup without cough? Walk yourself without a scarf, eat ice cream, do not be afraid of drafts. If your body does not bother you, then you should not look for breakdowns in it. Remember, the one who seeks will always find! Or create it yourself. With brushes and paints of thoughts and doubts. Or medical error.
The baby and his appearance in the provisional Maternal Kingdom do not fit into medical theory. That is why IVF cannot guarantee you one hundred percent success, and the diagnosis of infertility is once smashed to smithereens with a happy cry and with trembling fingers dialing a loved one's phone.
Well, the morning begins with a smile and a beautiful dress
Smile as often as possible! Dress and decorate yourself! Then even such a terrible bjak as toxicosis, if he visits you, then not for long. Yes, it’s very difficult to even comb your hair during “toxicosis”. But you are not alone in the whole world! Your phone is full of names of friends, your beloved might do something. At least, every man will be able to get a dress out of the closet and help you climb into it.
Do not leave the best outfits until the day when you become thin and beautiful again. You are now incredibly beautiful! Honestly! Beauty is an unmeasured concept. Therefore, your recovered priest cannot be ugly just because she has become a little wider. Autumn, winter, snowdrops, rainbow, trees, butterflies. Can we talk about the beauty or ugliness of all this? You are part of this list. There is something pure and divine in you.
Change the usual silhouettes and models of dresses for a little more free. What does not fit is not necessarily referred to as a “bag”. Renowned Japanese fashion designer Eji Yamamoto in one of his interviews said that the more a woman’s outfit hides a woman’s femininity and beauty, the more they radiate from her heart.
Read the “Shopaholic and Baby” by Sophie Kinsella. This book inspires shopping and self-love.
Create, dream, fall in love
Many pregnant women admit that with the birth of life in their stomach, they had a need to create. So, someone who never picked up a knitting needle began to knit a dowry for a baby. Perplexed, how so evenly and smoothly the loops fold together. Someone discovered an artist or writer in himself. Try yourself in what the soul reaches for, and you will surely succeed! Beautiful, unusual and so that you can’t take your eyes off!
Do not think that pregnancy involves a hard day, restrictions in everything and does not leave you space for dreams and fantasies. Nothing like this! You yourself are a gardener and a rose. Therefore, it is up to you to decide when the sun will come out, when it will rain or when the time will come for fertilizer and harvesting.
Dream and fulfill your dreams! Travel and ride the rides. Go hiking and shopping. If you really want a cake, eat it! With a smile, and not with thoughts about how terrible carbohydrates take over your body.
Get your own pregnancy calendar in which to plan your own holidays and special days. Riding a boat or a balloon with a loved one. Bachelorette party with chocolate cakes. A trip to the cinema and ballet. All that your enthusiastic soul wants! You can find many interesting ideas for a happy and vibrant pregnancy in Olga Meshcherskaya’s book “The Apple and the Apple Tree. Or a manual on a happy pregnancy and the mood accompanying it. ”
Fall in love! Again in your beloved. In the cat on the street, in the smell of spring, in the violets that stand on the windowsill of the grandmother from the first floor. Try to find beauty in everything and admire that which did not cause any emotions before. A loving, winged, pregnant woman ... What could be more magnificent?