The beautiful half of humanity, many men agree with this, is very susceptible to frequent changes in mood. Women can be upset with anything: a hook on pantyhose, a broken nail - there could be a lot of reasons. And how can an upset girl not completely appropriate remark of a young man! So, before you is a resentful woman: how to behave with her?
Prevention
It is much easier to prevent a catastrophe than to work with its consequences:
- First of all, you should never praise her friends or other ladies. Remember: even if you did not speak badly about her legs, she may be offended if you praised her friend's legs.
- Wear your sweetheart in your arms, celebrate a new hairstyle, a beautiful dress, a good lipstick color. The fair sex loves with their ears - say compliments and kind words to her. And always think before you name a woman, so as not to accidentally offend by any word. It is known that a compliment about how beautiful she is today may raise her internal question: what, usually I am ugly?
- Pay more attention to the girl, she will not tolerate that, while talking with her, you buried yourself in your favorite iPhone.
- Give your beloved flowers not only on holidays, but also without reason, this will give her more positive emotions and fewer reasons for resentment.
- Try to remember all the important dates for her, since modern gadgets make it possible to do this very simply.
- Arrange romantic surprises, do it for no reason, and then you will not know how an offended woman behaves.
How to part and not offend
Separately, it should be said about such a difficult situation as parting. It is very difficult to break off relationships and not hurt the feelings of another. Nowadays, tips aimed at the fact that in this case it is necessary to create a situation that forces the partner herself to break off the relationship are becoming increasingly popular.
The first way to implement this strategy is to surround it with intrusive attention, crush it with jealousy, endlessly scribble SMS, call, control. If you squeeze this situation to the end, the second half will sever the relationship itself, and you will not know how the offended woman will behave .
The second method is based on psychological violence. It consists in being rude to her, saying unpleasant things, using knowledge of her weak points. Here you will offend her anyway, but to a lesser extent than if you quit. Although this is the most vile way of parting, let's be honest.
There is also an opinion that you can avoid resentment on the part of the fair sex if you talk with her heart to heart, tell how you value the days spent together, how you will keep in your soul that beautiful that was between you.
How to behave if she is offended
The easiest and most effective way is to find out about the reason. You can offer to talk, or you can directly ask if she was offended by something. It is possible that she just wants attention and she sulks that you do not look at her like you did in the days of your first meetings.
If she does not make contact, is silent, then just hug her. It may happen that she does not want to talk about some situation, for example, she failed the task at work, and she is ashamed to talk about it.
It is possible that the offended woman just wants to be alone. She is tired of household chores and constant duties, she wants privacy to put her thoughts in order, plan her affairs, take time for herself, and dream. The advice is this: just leave her alone, and after a while offer delicious tea, she will definitely appreciate such attention.
What is definitely not worth doing
If this offended woman is dear to you , if you value relations with her, then in no case do not laugh at her condition, do not say that all her problems are trifles, that you have a lot of different difficulties, but you don’t get any troubles. You will lose emotional contact with your soulmate and with great difficulty will be able to restore it.
Remember, for the fair sex is always important feelings. Notice when a man talks about a situation, he talks only about facts, and a woman will tell you what dress she was wearing, what she saw, who she was talking to, what the weather was. If you interrupt her and say that she says nonsense, this can also cause resentment, so try to listen to her carefully, or to portray attention, which, of course, is worse. And in order for the girl to tell you less about the details of each of her day, do not forbid her to see her friends.
Follow these simple rules, and you will never know how dangerous a resentful woman is.