What is treason? Should I forgive her? Or is it worth forever breaking up a relationship? What to do to never encounter this phenomenon? There are many more questions that disturb both young girls and women of piquant age. You can answer these questions, but first you’ll have to figure out what the word “treason” means in Russian.
Dictionaries state that cheating is a failure to comply with contractual obligations. These obligations may be written (oath, contracts, marriage certificate , etc.) or oral.
It is for this interpretation of the word that some lovers cling to other people's beds cling. “I did not promise her anything,” said the inexperienced Casanova and cheating on her girlfriend with her girlfriend.
This is unconditionally treason, and it is undoubtedly bad. It is not necessary to make vows out loud. We just, ladies, believe that if a relationship with a partner lasts a long time, if a man makes us understand how he likes us, finally, if we sleep with him, then this obliges him to be faithful. We hope that if the partner thinks differently, then at least he will warn about it and explain his point of view.
What is treason? Disgusting act. Its consequences are quarrels, tears, sometimes nervous breakdowns and the formation of a stable concept that "all men are their own ...", and "all women are sous ...".
Is it so? Incidentally, cheating on a guy is as common as cheating on a girl. The statistics are disappointing. But does the fact of betrayal indicate that the partner or partner is a disgusting person? Not always.
To answer the question of what treason is, how to avoid it, you need to understand the reasons for this act.
There is an opinion that there are many reasons for treason. This is partly true. In part, because the wording of any occasion has the word "dissatisfaction." Dissatisfaction with sexual life, lack of attention, and uncertainty about the future pushes into betrayal. Treason is provoked by dissatisfaction with relationships, frequent and large quarrels. Cheating on men can show their self-doubt.
Scientists from all countries have come to the conclusion: if both partners respect each other, if they are happy with their sex life and life (believe me, this is important!), If they are able to listen and understand each other, then the risk of treason in such couples is rapidly approaching to zero.
Is it necessary to forgive betrayal or is it worth immediately breaking up a relationship? Each person must find the answer for himself. But before making a decision, try to delve deeply into the situation, find the reason that pushed your soul mate to treason.
By the nature of my work, I talked a lot with men on this topic, which excites them no less than women. And so what conclusions have I come to.
Many men, feeling their underestimation in relationships, try to assert themselves on the side. The more beds they visited, the more courageous they become in their own eyes.
Others justify their betrayal by a sense of duty. Love passed, they say, I passionately fell in love with another, but I will not give up my wife, because we lived with her for a long time (there are children). This is also an empty excuse, which most often suggests that a man is not able to make decisions. Such a macho just does not think about the fact that he hurts both ladies.
Of course, this behavior is disgusting. But, dear ladies, remember how long you praised your husband (boyfriend, partner, gentleman, boyfriend)? How often do you have a "headache" in the most intimate moments? How long have you shown your tenderness, arranged a half pleasant surprises? Maybe you too often turn from a loving wife, a skilled housewife and a faithful girlfriend into a grymza, a saw or a vixen?
Dear men, remember, did your job replace your wife? Don't you too often neglect your girlfriend by flirting with others?
Think about your behavior, try to correct it, and then you do not have to look for the answer to the question of what is treason. You simply never come across such a concept. Love, be faithful and happy.