The question “Why are men cheating?” Is being asked by more and more women. And although male adultery has recently become quite commonplace, and men themselves take it calmly, the female half can’t put up with their behavior in any way. Statistics show that male infidelity most often causes families and couples to break up.
So still, why do men cheat? In fact, there are a lot of reasons for this. Often, it is even difficult to understand what exactly prompted the man to such an act. And yet there are some of the most common reasons, we will talk about them in more detail.
A man can change when he is not satisfied sexually. This happens when a girl or already a wife refuses to have sex or behaves in a very constrained and restrained manner. There are men who love sexual relations in which a woman takes all the initiative into her own hands. But when a man does not get (in terms of sex) what he wants, he certainly begins to look for it on the side. Having received the desired, with a calm soul, he returns to his former partner with the appearance of a satisfied person, while he is not going to ruin the relationship.
Male infidelity finds a place even when it does not suit the general behavior of a woman. As a rule, she knows how to prove herself in bed, but cannot find understanding with a man: his wife (girl) constantly reproaches him for being lazy, scattered things, and later returning home. She tries in every possible way to emphasize that he is not the one with whom she would like to spend her whole life. The whole situation is burdensome for the man, and he begins to seek peace on the side, finding him in the arms of a woman who will never say such a thing. It comes to the point that he simply does not want to go home, but runs to his mistress, who is both a lifebuoy and a refuge from insults and humiliations.
Why do men change when the two reasons listed above do not have a relationship? Yes, if only because he was not used to maintaining sexual relations with the same partner for a long time. All the time he wants to discover new heights, but at the same time he is not in a hurry to part with his wife or constant girl, in other words, he keeps him on a thin leash just in case of an unforeseen event. Such behavior of a man lasts differently, someone stops walking after several trips to the left, and someone continues to change further, and even when relations with the main partners have long been broken.
Do you know why men cheat if they absolutely do not want this? For example, they often do this when they are drunk and cannot predict their behavior. Sleeping with a girl you like in this state is not difficult. In addition, a man cannot always remember what he did: most often his friends tell him about it.
It also happens that a man changes when the other half changes. As you know, female adultery is also not uncommon today. Upon learning that the beloved wife or girl has a lover, the man decides to take revenge on the same, well, or even go on, replacing a large number of partners in a short period of time. In such situations, women no longer need to look for the answer to the question “why did the guy change”, because she herself gave him this impetus.
What to do? Is it possible to forgive treason? It is difficult to give an unambiguous answer to these questions, because the situations are all different, as well as the people themselves. And yet, if there is a strong love between partners, then sometimes it is better to forgive the betrayal and try to start all over again. But if men's infidelity is constant, then it is worth thinking about ending these complex and painful relationships. Sometimes it’s easier to part with a past life and start a new, brighter and happier place, in which there will be no place for betrayal and humiliation. And even children cannot be the thread that will keep a woman from breaking up.