Many guys are faced with the fact that they like the girl, and she does not pay attention. You can’t sit back in this situation and wait for one day that everything will fall into place as you wish. The question arises: "How to achieve a girl?"
In ancient times, knights delighted ladies with their exploits, falling in love with themselves, but now such methods are impossible. And the challenge to a duel of an opponent is now being judged by completely different standards. So how to achieve a girl, if not “exploits”?
Some men believe that for the fair half, their well-being and figure are mostly important. No need to bet on it. It may be just a nice addition, but it's best to win a heart. You do not want to be loved only for a wallet or cubes? Of course, this does not mean that you need to stop developing, play sports and make money.
Before you seek a girl, you should learn some secrets, which we will tell you about:
- Be persistent. You called your lover to the cinema, the theater, but she refused? You must not give up! Take her home, meet with flowers. Have a good night or just laugh. Try to catch the eye more often (but not too much), she will notice you. Do not attempt every five minutes, soak for a day or two. If you paid a lot of attention, and then disappeared somewhere for a while, this will interest her. Appear suddenly with a bouquet of flowers at her home, and your chances will increase. Do not get carried away! Otherwise, you will annoy her. If you were refused 4-5 times, manage to “move away" from it yourself.
- How to achieve a girl without letting other men? First of all, remember: excessive jealousy will not lead to anything good either. Show yourself in potentially dangerous places with her more often, so that others can see that she has you. Most opponents will drive it away. Also try gently getting rid of her male friends. Do not think that nobody except you needs it. Respect her and show your love.
- Try to please her friends, because her opinion is important to her (but do not flirt with them). Tell an interesting story from childhood, make a toast, in general, be sociable.
- Is it worth it to get a girl who really, really doesn't like you? The answer is no. There are always women who do not “bite” you, even if you are an ideal. Just understand and move on. Do not be offended or take revenge, it is better to switch to another.
- Do not be rude, show good manners, be polite. Do not swear with your beloved obscenities and do not insult the feelings of others. You can help others (if you transferred your grandmother across the road, “plus one to karma” is provided for you in most cases).
- Be at least a little emotional. Show your feelings, girls appreciate when they are told the most "secret". Do not answer with short sentences to questions, tell everything in detail.
- At least potentially wish marriage. All women think about it. Do not be naive. Show that you are with her in the fire, and in the water, and in the registry office. Remember that getting married every year is more difficult for her. If you absolutely, completely disagree, it is better to abandon the "conquests."
- Be confident. Try to make the most decisions, and not unconditionally obey your girlfriend. She also wants to feel like a weaker sex.
- It will be easier if you know how to do anything. Open the wine and beat the shelf - everything will be written to you in pluses.
- Once you have achieved it, do not forget to continue to please her with gifts. If you are late - warn. You don’t want your beloved to worry.
That's all the tips on how to get a girl. Recall that everything is in your hands.