“Men think that girls dream of meeting the love of a lifetime, and girls dream of eating a lot and not gain weight,” this, of course, is a joke, but not without some truth. In the sense that men's ideas about what girls dream about often do not coincide with the cherished girl's dreams. Clearly, dreams of guys. So what attracts or does not attract girls?
Traditionally, women are attracted to the high intelligence of men. However, the ability to solve mental problems that are difficult for a girl is really appreciated. She will not be impressed by your discussion of Godel’s theorem, but help with a difficult task will be very welcome. Moreover, it is important not only to solve the problem, but also to be able to clearly explain it. The ability to tell a difficult thing in simple words proves the giftedness of a man, and this is highly valued, because every woman subconsciously searches for a smart father to her child, even if she does not declare that she wants a serious relationship with a particular man. In general, guys, learn new things and train to explain this new one. You can start by explaining the material to lagging students in your university group. At the same time you will get friends. Tactful help at a difficult moment is what girls dream about, so learn to determine exactly when your help is needed - and offer it.
Also for women, especially very young ones, attractive guys who know how to communicate well. This is one of the reasons why girls choose older guys. It's just that older guys usually know how to communicate better, they are more confident in themselves by virtue of experience, they know how to squander compliments, and they know better the emotional needs of girls. By the age of 25, young women, on the contrary, begin to fear too eloquent boyfriends, rightly suspecting them of excessive popularity, which in women's eyes is a disadvantage, not a dignity. However, before the realization of this simple worldly wisdom, as a rule, many years pass. And young girls like guys who know how to maintain a lively conversation, are not shy about openly expressing emotions and coming up with pleasant surprises for their beloved. Creating a good mood is also what girls dream about. To begin with, it’s good to learn a lot of jokes that you will recall for the occasion. And, although men on dating sites are not recommended to smile, in the life of unsmiling guys girls are afraid. Therefore, in person, smile more.
If you interview men about which guys the girls choose, one of the first points in the frequency of mention will be “with a beautiful body”. However, a beautiful body in the eyes of different girls can have different meanings. So physique is not that important. Most girls prefer not muscular athletes, but guys of average build. By the way, many ladies like full guys, especially if they are tall. It’s comfortable with such men and you feel protected, even if a guy has never won a fight in his whole life. A thin guys easier to fit into a romantic image. Is it worth going to the gym? Yes, it is. But not for the sake of press cubes and chic biceps. And for the sake of developing character.
Yes, the strong-willed character of a man is very important. This quality allows guys to achieve a lot in life and girls instinctively feel men in their young years that a bright and interesting life awaits him. And therefore, strong-willed guys often hang themselves on the neck themselves. Of course, if you are naturally understanding and thoughtful, it is better not to try to build a superman from yourself. But if you have good willpower from God, be sure to use it. The main thing is not to press on the woman herself. A home tyrant is not at all what girls dream about.
As you see, in order to please a girl, you don’t need so much - the ability to help her intellectually, the ability to communicate and support with strong-willed pressure in a difficult situation when she herself is ready to flinch. Try to be yourself and realize these qualities in your own unique style. The lack of one quality can be compensated for by another, so it’s wiser to bet on what you get better. Beloved will notice you!