All girls dream of a sensual, caring and strong guy nearby. It is such a "prince" born under the zodiac sign of Cancer. However, in reality, it is very difficult to build something with him or just explain about the status of your relationship.
Cancer man in love, what is he? What lies beneath his impenetrable protective carapace? To love such a man is extremely difficult. He is touchy, inclined to despondency and is indecisive. But then this guy is smart, has a great sense of humor and prudently handles finances.
We are watching the ascendant: Cancer or not Cancer?
Popular astrology considers exclusively the solar zodiac sign. However, such a consideration of the horoscope is too superficial. The basic characteristics of a person need to be watched by the sign of the ascendant. The ascendant is calculated on any online portal for free. You only need to know the exact time of birth, date and place.
If your new acquaintance is by Cancer ascendant, feel free to go on a date with him. This person will never offend you and he is set up only for serious relationships. But at first, determining whether he likes you or not is a pretty difficult task. How does a man in love with Cancer behave? How long will it hide their feelings?
How often do crayfish fall in love and how serious is it
Cancer Man, according to the horoscope, appreciates a constant, sincere relationship. He is not one to spray feelings. He is serious about relationships and has been looking for a unique partner for a long time. But if he does not find his ideal and is disappointed in women, then he begins to make easy intrigues, he can change. Much depends on personal moral qualities and education.
Some Cancer men are so vulnerable to the female gender in the past that they absolutely do not want to get to know anyone or have a relationship.
The moon gives the Cancers such qualities as thrift, practicality, love of order. They cook their own meals and do a great job without a woman. Therefore, not meeting true love, not finding the woman with whom they want to raise children, Cancers turn into inveterate bachelors. Or as a racket.
Men crayfish and their features
To begin with, I want to note that Cancer is a sign of the water element and a sign of the cardinal cross.
All signs in astrology are divided into 3 crosses - cardinal, mutable and fixed. Four signs related to the cardinal cross: Aries, Cancer, Libra and Capricorn. These signs are able to take the initiative, take matters into their own hands and bring it to the end.
All Cancers born by the ascendant are those people who have inner strength and who will not allow anyone to manipulate themselves. Rather, they themselves will be manipulators than victims. They, in principle, can take the initiative as Aries, but they rarely do this, because sometimes they themselves can not cope with their emotionality and fear of being refused. All signs of the water element are subject to fears, mood swings and doubts. Therefore, the development of solid masculine qualities for Cancer should be thorough.
Indeed, crayfish are strongly influenced by the moon and often their mood changes very quickly. The moon symbolizes female energy, so for a guy who is subject to its influence, life is quite complicated. But this female energy gives its bonus to Cancer - it receives an incredible intuition as a gift from nature. And thanks to this instinct, he can recognize the girl of his dreams after 20 minutes of talking with her. But he cannot express his feelings directly and openly. Crayfish are too secretive and also vulnerable. Understanding that a man Cancer is in love with a woman is impossible. This can only be felt and squeezed out of him recognition or confess first.
Cancer in love: behavior and symptoms
What is the love representative of the sign going through? How active is it? Is it possible to confess first to feelings for him? How does a man in love with Cancer behave? We will answer in order. Crayfish are well-mannered people, often self-contained, but if they fall in love, a chivalrous spirit often wakes up in their hearts. Previously quiet, philosophical personalities, suddenly show activity in conversation, start joking and telling interesting, in their opinion, stories. Such behavior may indicate that he really liked the girl.
Sometimes a different picture appears. Those representatives of the sign who love long informative conversations and are not averse to joking with everyone around them, suddenly close themselves from everyone and are silent for a long time. They are afraid that they will betray their feelings in the presence of others with a careless word or gaze. After all, it seems to them that other people also have intuitive abilities.
Signs of a man in love with Cancer
There are several striking signs by which you can recognize that your friend Cancer has tender feelings. So, remember these "symptoms of Cancer's love":
- As a sign of water, Cancer is not very eloquent. He better shows his feelings through warm, unobtrusive care.
- He tries to be nearby, to show signs to his beloved.
- His attention is constantly focused on the object of love. But if a girl catches his gaze, he will blush terribly and look away.
- A man can give his beloved from time to time pleasant surprises.
The behavior of a man in love with Cancer is sometimes absurd. If any phrase lover hooked him, he decides to leave. But there will be no rude talk about parting. He himself will be hurt, but he will try to do it delicately.
Of course, Cancers are different, a lot depends on what other planets are in his first House; where is the moon located, and what is the planet that controls the constellation. But upbringing is of great importance. There are completely domestic “mother's sons” among the Crayfish, who have not come out of custody, but there are also quite serious young people with a rather firm, decisive character.
What is remarkable for the crayfish in love? Date behavior
What awaits the girl who went on a date with a sensitive guy - Cancer according to the horoscope? Crayfish men in love behave gallantly and attentively, and absolutely sincerely and expect the same from the girl. If a man is not confident in himself, he speaks little, looks confused and somewhat funny.
All Cancers are very nice and helpful in communicating, especially with girls. These guys will never allow themselves rude remarks or taunts. They are characterized by balance and a healthy outlook on things. They also try to choose modest and reasonable girls. They are waiting from the ladies for their hearts to be sensitive to their feelings. And if Cancer is offended, he will not call for a long time, or maybe he will completely close himself from such relationships that cause him emotional discomfort.
It is practical, sometimes excessively economical. He would rather cook a romantic dinner himself than take the girl to a restaurant. Will there be flowers on a date? At the beginning of the novel, Crayfish often give some trifles, if they can afford it, and rather expensive gifts. But it is worth warning that this will not be long.
Close relations
The disadvantages of Cancer include its tendency to be late on dates. Saturn in this sign is very weak, namely Saturn is responsible for the perception of time. But the main advantage of a sign is loyalty in a relationship. He would never even think about treason, and if a companion aroused a sense of love in him, he was ready to even forgive her inability to cook.
Crayfish can take care like no other sign. In addition, many of these men cook very well.
How does a man in love with Cancer behave? He is very attached to his mother, he will never be able to refuse her help. He is honest, he will not lie to loved ones, but rather silent about the bad news. He does not like the depressed atmosphere in the house.
In general, Cancers protect themselves from disappointment and despondency. If Cancer succumbs to a depressive mood, it will remain in it for a long time. He knows this trait in himself and is afraid of becoming one himself.
The man of the zodiac Cancer is always in love with his head. He will devote all his efforts to home improvement, to create a strong financial foundation for a large family, where there will be children and then grandchildren.
But if a woman goes to another, he will be completely broken. For Cancers, home and family are always their core value.
If the ruler of the zodiac is in the fall?
The ruler of Cancer is Jupiter. A lot of the behavior of a man in love depends on the sign of Jupiter. So, the representative of Cancer will be more generous, welcoming, sociable interlocutor, if Jupiter is in his element. And if he is in exile in Gemini, then the character of Cancer is different. He will not give expensive gifts or scatter in compliments. Such a man, however, is more faithful in a relationship.
The causes of jealousy of such men
If a Cancer man is in love with a woman, he will be terribly jealous. At first it will try to hide it. But if the relationship develops into something serious, Cancer will get angry whenever another man shows signs of attention to his girlfriend. Of course, this does not apply to all Cancers. Some know their negative qualities and work on them. For the shy and unsure representative of this zodiac sign, competition with a more confident man is unbearable. But if he took place in a career and feels quite free with a woman, he will not be jealous for no reason. And the reason will be the lack of sincerity and trust in the relationship - intuitive Cancer as if scans his girlfriend and sees when they hide something from him.
People under the influence of the moon are all owners. And to find out that the Cancer man is in love, you can be jealous of everyone. Crayfish get used to old clothes, furniture, it’s hard to break any ties. If he decided to open his feelings, then he completely trusts the woman.
Compatibility with other marks
The most suitable for a Cancer man in terms of building a strong family would be another watermark. Cancers will be very comfortable and cozy in a relationship with Scorpio or Pisces. Only Scorpio can "read the thoughts" of Cancer and behave with him as patiently as necessary to maintain peace. They are both very discerning and smart enough to understand each other perfectly.
Despite the fact that Scorpios are very caustic and can be sharp in communication, they are ideal partners for Cancers. They know how to control their emotions and understand the emotions of others. Scorpio woman perfectly understands the man - Cancer. How to understand that he is in love will not be a question for this girl, since she will be able to "scan" the guy Cancer and call him for a frank conversation.
Cancer will have a good relationship with Taurus or with Aquarius. But with a fiery sign, they better not build a relationship. It will be a difficult union for both.
Emotional protection
How the man in love Cancer behaves, we already said - he closes to protect himself. This man will cease to defend himself only if the girl constantly confesses her love and convinces him that she will never give up. Breaking relationships with Cancer in love means breaking his life.
That is why he has been eyeing for so long, evaluating the woman with whom he is going to build the future. Friendship and trust are important to him.
How long does a girl wait for a marriage proposal?
Cancer Man can be both decisive and responsible. But he will not make proposals, until he is 100% sure that this is a mutual sincere relationship. That this woman will not criticize him, cut after the wedding and demand more money than he is able to give her. Therefore, the potential bride will have to endure a couple of years.
Know that if Cancer shows attention and leaves a little time for the girl to think about a past date, then he will soon offer you a painting. However, do not expect a magnificent banquet from him.