In our world, each person is unique in his own way. Different languages, different cultures and different diseases prevail in the countries of the world. But there are also such “diseases” that unite many personalities. For example, a heightened sense of justice. About him and will be discussed below.
How does it manifest
How often do you meet perfectionists? Seldom? So, too fair people can be met more often. In search of justice, some people can go far and hurt many. Such persons do not know how to be silent and want to be heard. They try to establish justice even when it is not their personal business. But more often a person is outraged due to the fact that his interests were affected. The manifestation of a psychological flaw, such as a heightened sense of justice, is manifested in temperance. The person will try to always win, and in order to achieve his goal, a person can do a lot. But man will not transgress the laws of morality or written laws. He will always keep himself within the bounds of decency, as far as education will allow him to do it. Truth and justice for man is always above all. A person will be offended by people who decorate their stories with fiction, as well as those who cross the road to a red light.
pros
But do not consider a keen sense of justice a curse. Psychologists say that if you slightly adjust the consciousness of a person, you can remove strong nervousness, and the person will cease to divide the world into black and white. After all, people who want to live in fairness have their advantages.
- A person will never do wrong in relation to another. A person will always try on someone else's role on himself, and, thanks to this, he will understand what you can and cannot do.
- A person will not break the law and harm others. People with a keen sense of justice are respectable citizens who observe not only state laws, but also moral laws.
- A person who honors justice will never lie. A man will make every effort to live in good conscience, and will never gossip or slander.
Minuses
Nevertheless, a heightened sense of justice is a kind of illness. A person who cannot accept the imperfection of this world will suffer. In life, most people break the law, assert their rights and try to change the usual way of things. What are the minuses of the character of people with a heightened sense of justice?
- A person cannot argue with others. The conflict must always be resolved peacefully, finding a compromise. But the person who places justice above all lives without compromise. A person cannot agree with the opinion of another person unless he considers it ideal.
- A person who loves justice will report on all his acquaintances. He will present the information not in the form of gossip, but in the form of a statement of facts. But such a process is hardly pleasant.
- Touchiness is the problem of all people who cannot accept the imperfection of the world. People are unhappy with their friends, colleagues, acquaintances, and sometimes a person can be offended even by weather conditions. Rapid mood swings make a person an unpleasant person.
Causes
Someone may decide that a fighter for justice is an honorable mission. But if you look into the soul of a person, it becomes clear that he wants justice not out of the best of intentions.
- Envy. A person who cannot accept the injustice of the world is very envious. A person does not understand why he works with everyone on an equal basis, but receives less benefits than the rest. Or he may be dissatisfied with the fact that he is working with a friend on equal terms, but for some reason a friend receives large bonuses and receives various privileges. These thoughts haunt.
- Anger. There are no ideal people, and you should not rely on the fact that you will like everyone around, without exception. It is quite normal to meet individuals who cause antipathy in your soul. And if a normal person simply admits that someone is unpleasant to him, then a person with a keen sense of justice will be angry with himself for not being able to love an unpleasant type.
- Resentment. Eternal resentment of others leads to the fact that a person begins to think that the world is unfair to his person. He thinks that others live better and get more benefits from this life.
- Guilt. A person who will blame herself for other people's troubles will never be happy. Too fair people cannot live a normal life, as something will confuse them all the time.
The problem must be sought in childhood
How to live for people who suffer from a sense of heightened justice? A person needs to do introspection or go to a therapist. He needs to find out the root of the problem and understand how long justice has become an obsession. Perhaps the child has lived without compromise since childhood, or maybe obsessions began to arise in school, when parents compared the child with other children in the classroom. First you need to find the root of the problem, and then find the person who planted the root and fertilized it. Without the support of an adult, an exaggerated sense of justice would not have grown in the soul.
All babies divide the world into black and white, but when growing up, they must understand that there are intermediate tones, such as gray, which helps make life interesting and unusual. People who recognize only good and evil get along badly in this world. Therefore, having discovered a problem in your mind and understanding when the problem arose there, you need to gradually train yourself to see in the world around us not two colors, but also various variations of these colors.
Learn to relax
Do you know a heightened sense of justice? What to do to a person who wants to get rid of a similar character trait? The easiest and most effective option is to learn how to relax. What kind of people wind themselves more than others? Those who are constantly worried about something. Release the situation if you cannot change it. Take for granted that you have no control over everything that happens in this world. From time to time, you need to let your affairs drift and trust the further development of the events of the universe.
Letting go of his problems, a person gains a sense of peace of mind. A similar sensation appears when the head is free from extraneous thoughts. A similar effect can be achieved with the help of meditation or with the help of one of its techniques, namely focusing on breathing. Try to live consciously and understand how your thoughts are born. Understanding the cause of your own dissatisfaction, it will be easier for you to deal with it.
Try to break your own foundations from time to time
A fair person lives by the rules that he himself came up with. From time to time, you need to step back from the foundations and check them for strength. What can be broken and what not? You can be guided not by someone else's instructions, but by your own common sense. For example, a driver with a heightened sense of justice can constantly blame people who do not follow the rules. Such a person needs to come up with a new road entertainment. Instead of spoiling his nerves, he can begin to listen to audio books or learn foreign languages at special courses designed for verbally perceived information. Such a restructuring makes the human brain perceive a familiar situation differently. A person will become more tolerant of people around him and with great understanding will treat those who violate the law.
Get out of your comfort zone more often
A fair person in most cases is cowardly. He can assert his rights, but he will live according to the established charter prescribed from above. He will not resist the way of life, since it is unusual for him. To change this passive approach, a person needs to leave the comfort zone from time to time and do things unusual for himself. For example, he can relax abroad, and not in his country house, spend a weekend at a social party, and not in front of the TV. A person must from time to time carry out unusual actions. If it works out well, then each time he will more and more revise his worldview and process it.
Live your life and don't follow others
A heightened sense of justice does not develop on its own. It is a mistake in raising a child. Parents, who made the baby often look back at others and compare their personality with others, crippled his consciousness. The kid can no longer evaluate his actions without looking back at his neighbor. And naturally, the child will be offended if the neighbor receives more than the others for his efforts.
An adult who knows his problem must deal with it. First of all, you need to abandon the habit of looking back at others. It doesn’t matter how and who works. It is important how you work and whether you enjoy the process. If you are satisfied with your activity, then do not pay attention to the opinions of others. You should accept the fact that each person may have an opinion about you. But this does not mean that you need to pay attention to it. Live without looking at others, that’s how you will be happier.
Do not look for idols
Do you have a heightened sense of justice? So, you probably have your own personal idol, which you try to imitate. A hero can be either real or fictional. Someone in childhood re-read fairy tales about Robin Hood, and someone always liked fairy tales, where good conquers evil. Growing up, a person understood that he needed to be equal with someone and chose a character as his ideal. But such an alignment does not lead to anything good. A person is upset that he is unable to repeat the fate of his ideal.
A person should not compare himself with a fictional character and not with a neighbor, but with himself. If you have made a big leap in the development of your personality over the past year regarding what happened last year, then consider it a success. It is these achievements that one should be proud of.
Think more with your head
People with a heightened sense of justice think in stereotypes. They themselves do not make decisions about what is good and what is bad. They take such knowledge from fairy tales, books and stories of parents. But nobody should trust the word. Even indestructible truths should always be checked. Otherwise, a person can turn into a puppet in someone else's hands. Think with your own head, make your own decisions based on the arguments that you personally made.