How many obstacles sometimes stand in the way of two people building their relationship. How many obstacles, strength tests and other events. Only a truly loving couple can survive in battle with Destiny itself, and carry their love to death.
Scandals, squabbles and quarrels are an integral attribute of any relationship. If there weren’t these unpleasant moments, where would the emotions go? Any relationship needs a shake-up, but, of course, not without reason or far-fetched reasons. It is important during the time to understand when an ordinary trivial quarrel threatens to develop into a grand scandal with all the ensuing consequences. It is necessary to be able to prevent such a development of events, or rather, not to be able, but to study for a long, long time. A woman should be wise and feel that "the storm is about to begin."
She will not talk about quarrels over an unclosed tube of toothpaste, cups under the sofa and socks on the armchairs. Let’s really talk about how to apologize to a guy if you are to blame. Naturally, pride, a strong resentment for any phrases or words, a fear of rejection, can pretty much interfere with thoughts how to ask a guy for forgiveness. Remember that you need to do this after a certain time. This is not about when you hurt your man and arrogantly do not want to say "sorry." We are talking about the case when you only after some time realize that you were very wrong and mistaken.
If you are wrong and think about how to apologize to a guy, then you should clearly understand that you are ready to meet and take the first step. To get started, just come to him and say the banal, but the necessary "sorry, I was wrong." Anyone who has ever asked for forgiveness knows how difficult it is, at times, to do it. How hard it is to look in the eyes and say this phrase, waiting for a verdict. If the guy has cooled down, most likely he will forgive you, but if resentment and insulted dignity dominates him, then you will have to make efforts to beautifully apologize to the guy. In no case should you be offended by the report and “pout your lips” if you took the first step, and the guy did not forgive you. Make several attempts, and if after the third or fourth everything remains unchanged, just give him time and leave him alone - to impose words of forgiveness every day is also foolish. Now a step towards you will be behind him.
Think about how to originally ask a guy for forgiveness. This may be an invitation to a match, a concert, fights without rules, boating, motor ship, parachuting (if he had long dreamed). You can arrange jipping for him and his best friend, but so that the friend knows who the organizer is. This same friend can be attracted to like-minded people, maybe he will invite your boyfriend to a cafe, he will come, and there you are waiting for him at the set table. Or is it not a cafe, but a tent in the forest, for example, where you expect it, a delicious dinner, fruit and other attributes. In fact, you can come up with a lot of original ways to ask a guy for forgiveness, the main thing is to know what he wants, what he gravitates to, what he likes and what he won't refuse.
If the guy forgave you and you made up, then please keep your promises and obligations. Maybe you’ll even have to abandon the weekly scam to the disco with friends and do it once a month, he, in turn, also refuses Saturday football trips and does it twice a month. Always, if people love each other and value relationships, you can find a compromise and agree with a soul mate, the main thing is to be able to put yourself in the place of another person and understand how he feels. If you learn to take care of the feelings of another person, then conflicts and quarrels over time will become less, there will be more understanding and attachment.