Everyone wants to have a good friend. What should a friend be like? A true friend is a kind, faithful, honest person who comes to the rescue in difficult times, who can help out of trouble ... It is not easy to find the owner of such advantages, because each of us has the right to make mistakes. Probably the best friend has those qualities that are of paramount importance for this particular person. In each other, we value not individual character traits, but accept him as a whole as a person, with our habits, demeanor, and speech.
It is difficult to answer the question: "What should be a friend?" Sometimes a real friend becomes one who has survived the troubles with you, helped to overcome failures. You believe such a person as yourself. A friend will never leave in trouble. He is a close, dear man; you walk boldly through life. The very combination of the words "best friend" causes a feeling of calm, comfort. It is easy to have a conversation with a real comrade, without thinking that he will be transferred to someone in a distorted form, such a person can be safely entrusted with his secrets. Each for himself chooses what should be a friend.
People always dream of having an open, disinterested person next to them. Remember how many proverbs people have about true friendship: “A friend is in need,” “A best friend will not replace the new two,” “A hundred friends are better than a hundred rubles.” In our life, money will not replace a friend. Although one hundred true friends to have is a utopia. Most often, a true friend is one, sometimes two, less often three. After all, not everyone will share any confidential information, discuss some personal, sometimes intimate situation.
Almost from childhood, everyone thinks about who such a best friend is. An essay on this subject is often suggested to be written at school. Sometimes, even at a more mature age, it will not be superfluous to think about whether you have a best friend? It happens that we are surrounded by a lot of acquaintances, friends, comrades, but there is no real friend. Perhaps this is due to character traits, or is there simply no person nearby for whom we cannot become a “sure shoulder”, or are we just not able to keep secrets? Most often it is precisely such “virtues” that prevent friends. It must be remembered that a true friend is not only a person for you, but you for him. True friendship is a two-way process. Both comrades, walking through life, will not offend, will not deceive, will not remain indifferent when failures occur. They will share joys and sorrows among themselves, and will substitute their shoulder in happy and unpleasant moments.
What a friend should be is up to us. Indeed, for a true comrade, it is possible to sacrifice something and give priority to solving his problems to the detriment of oneself. The success of a friend is not envy, but delight; and his failures are as sad as his own.
Friendship must be valued, valued, because often the slightest disagreement can lead to a breakdown in relations, which both sides will later regret.
A true friend is a value that should not be scattered, true friends are those who know: we must always remember each other.