Lingam - this name was given to the male genital organ in Indian and Chinese tantric texts. Its name in translation sounds like “pillar of light”, it is believed that it is through it that creative energy passes. Lingam massage is performed so that the man learns to relax, get new sensations, control the release of energy and direct it in the right direction. Orgasm during massage is not the goal, but can be a pleasant addition to the session. Very often, lingam massage is carried out for recreational and even psychotherapeutic purposes in order to help a man recover from an injury as a physical, but often a mental one.
Lingam massage includes massage of all organs of the perineum: testicles, sacred place (male point G) and, in fact, the penis. There is a process in three stages. First, a man needs to relax and escape from everyday worries. To do this, he takes a warm bath or shower. It will not be superfluous to go to the toilet, so that during the massage you will not be distracted by extraneous sensations.
Lingam massage begins at the moment when the man lies in a relaxed state on his back, and his legs are divorced to the sides and slightly bent at the knees. Very often, for greater convenience, pillows are placed under his head so that he can observe the process, and pillows are placed under the hips and knees.
A woman performing a genital massage first gently massages the entire body of the man: chest, legs, hips, crotch and only then, after applying the necessary amount of massage oil or gel on her hands, proceeds to massage the penis and testicles. The main thing here is caution, because the testicles are the most sensitive place in men. Massage of the perineum, the area between the testicles and the anus can deliver an unusual sensation to the partner, because these places are almost always left without attention. Massage for a member is made in a certain sequence with a change in speed and pressure. First, the woman squeezes the trunk of the penis with her right hand and rises from the bottom up, and then the same movement produces the left hand. After several approaches, the direction of movement changes, now the hand slides from top to bottom, to the very bottom.
The order of the right and left hands is respected. Then there is a massage of the glans penis. As written in the tantric teachings, lingam massage can awaken hundreds of nerve endings located on the penis, which are associated with other parts of the body, and often have a pronounced healing effect.
It is not a fact that during the massage the penis will be constantly in a solid state, from time to time it can become soft, this is normal. It is necessary to monitor the condition of the partner and as soon as he approaches ejaculation, weaken his actions, move away from him and let him relax using the deep breathing technique.
As for the male point G, it is quite simple to find. It is located in a small depression, exactly in the middle between the testicles and anus. If you gently press it, then the man will first feel the pressure deep inside. Sensations may seem rather painful to him. However, as they massage, they change to pleasant ones; later this will help strengthen the orgasm. In another way, this area is called the "million dollar point." It can also be reached through the anus, by inserting a finger about three centimeters deep and pushing itself, however, not every man will agree to such an “invasion” the first time. Therefore, it is necessary to act gradually and carefully, simultaneously breaking social stereotypes and frameworks. Massage of the innermost point can cause uncontrollable emotions, painful memories from the past. The main thing is to let the man feel his emotions from beginning to end. The final stage of massage in many cases is the achievement of orgasm.