Man is a social being, and therefore subject to the influence of others. How great this impact is depends on the volitional qualities of the individual. Someone cannot take a step without the approval of significant persons, but someone does not care: he makes his own choice. And yet, in the life of every person, a moment comes when he asks himself: "Why am I here?" This can happen for no apparent reason: you have a good job, your bosses value it, your colleagues respect it, your family is waiting for you at home - in short, everything is like everyone else’s, and it’s quite safe. However, something is missing: the dish cooked in accordance with all the rules lacks spices, without which it seems fresh. You begin to catch yourself on the fact that you are increasingly asking yourself the question: "What is the purpose of the soul?" This means it's time to sort out the answer.
Get to know ourselves
The global question of your soul’s task in this life should begin with the first step - meeting yourself. This is not a trivial meeting with someone insignificant, this is your acquaintance with the most important person for you - you. Therefore, this meeting should begin with preparations: you do not come for an interview with a potential employer in home clothes.
A step-by-step instruction is as follows:
- free up time for a meeting: turn off the phone, transfer your affairs to the next day;
- put on your best suit or dress: you are preparing for a significant event;
- prepare a pen and a sheet of paper;
- draw a sheet of paper into 3 columns: the manifestation of emotions; favorite activities; feedback about this from relatives, parents, relatives;
- enter everything that you know yourself, and if you are at a loss with the third column - conduct a survey among loved ones;
- answers must contain the essence: do not “spread” the thought through the tree;
- analyze the result and determine your strong character traits;
- think about what kind of business your qualities could effectively apply;
- ponder the question of how much your profession coincides with those qualities that you received in the course of researching your personal strengths.
In order to get the answer to the question: "Destination is ...", you have advanced one step.
Energy recall
We continue to move towards the study of our life task: we will listen to ourselves and feel with what hints our body signals us that it is comfortable or vice versa. This applies to human energy.
So, you have chosen a lesson for life, go to work, perform your duties and, most likely, will do this work for many years ...
How do you feel reading these lines and presenting all this in the form of images? Do you feel a surge of strength, enthusiasm, a desire to continue your activity, a wave of joy covers you? If so, then you are in your place and you have correctly decided on the profession, and therefore, on the purpose - and this is wonderful.
Worse, if you feel a melancholy mood engulfing you, you are inwardly resisting and straining at the very thought that you are awaited by disgusted work for many years to come. This is a sign: it's time to change something.
Signs of the right choice
The correct choice of destination is, among other things, work corresponding to vocation. If you notice during the working day that:
- Time flies by: you just plunged into the next work task, and the clock reminds you of the end of the working day.
- It doesn’t matter to you how much time you spend on fulfilling your duties, and also for you the issue of payment is not decisive. It may seem to those around you that you are wasting your energy and that paying your work does not coincide with energy costs, but you do not pay attention to the opinions of other people and remain in your place.
- What you do gives you emotional satisfaction, you feel comfortable, feel a surge of energy, you get everything that you have in mind. By the way, your financial situation is quite stable or improving.
- You are an authority for others: they need your advice, and they turn to you for help - you are on the right track.
These signs signal to you that your choice coincided with the Design of the Universe regarding you.
About types of destination
Let's try to understand: how you can feel the right choice of destination. Simple truths must be recognized:
- Self-observation allows you to identify the needs of the soul and take care of it in time: analyze your feelings; control your instinctive impulses; correlate your actions with moral principles, reveal love and qualities of masculinity or femininity given to you.
- The formation and upbringing of our sensory side consists in translating uncontrollable emotions into conscious feelings.
- The development of the spirit is the basis of our constructive transformation. When the spirit directs us to creation, forming the desire to improve the world, the space around us begins to change, and desires - to be realized.
- At birth, we receive the makings and abilities, and our task is to develop them. Performing it, we have support from a single information field. Neglecting the gifts, we doom ourselves to dull vegetation.
The main purposes have nothing to do with a particular profession or status: all this is only a sign that you correlate your actions with the above principles of development of the soul, spirit, feelings and talents.
Search Map
If you began to be overcome by questions about the meaning of life and the direction of the goal, then something in your life went wrong: happy people are so absorbed in their work that they do not “bother” with such questions. There is a saying: "While doing what you love, you can even skip the apocalypse."
So, take the next step towards the goal of your life. To do this, choose one free day, which is fully devoted to the answer to the question: "My mission is ..."
Next, we divide the selected day into two parts. Before noon, we set out to give ourselves maximum pleasure. Men and women have different perceptions of pleasure. Therefore, the possible options are as follows:
- If you are a woman, then your path lies in the direction of the spa, massage, sauna, etc. methods of caring for the physical body, which will answer you with thanks. Devote time only to your beloved, spend as much money on this as your capabilities allow.
- If you are a man, you will probably enjoy thrills related to thrills. At the same time, you should not attend football matches or other competitions. It is important that you are a participant in them, not a spectator.
So, it was noon, and you returned home:
- change into something beautiful: the search for a destination is not an ordinary event;
- prepare a sheet of paper and a pen, turn off anything that might distract you;
- head the first sheet, for example, like this: "My destination";
- set the start time and set the timer for 1 hour;
- then put the number "1" and write everything that comes to mind;
- do not think over your thoughts, just fix, carefully add even the most "crazy" sentences to the list;
- Do not be distracted for anything for an hour;
- when the timer signal rings, stop, review your notes, and then crumple them and send them to the trash, because everything that you wrote has nothing to do with you personally;
- start a new list and continue it until your body reacts to a certain record with some sign: it can be "goose bumps" in your body, tears, an emotional explosion, etc.
- continue the list until ideas are over;
- set it aside for a while, maybe a day or a week;
- repeat the procedure, noting the emotional response of the body;
- if at the same point you again receive the answer of the body - you have found what you were looking for.
other methods
There are various methods for meeting your destiny. What suits someone is a matter of individuality and personal preference. So, to determine your purpose of birth, you can contact:
- To childhood memories: to your favorite games of the period when you were free and happy just from the game process.
- If you know the technique of meditation, then the “from the other side” hint will come in handy. During meditation, you can get help of the kind: among your ancestors there were both outstanding and not very bright personalities, but each of them made a certain energetic contribution to your destiny.
- The next way is also related to imaginative thinking: imagine that you have realized your wildest dreams regarding financial well-being. Then ask yourself the question: “What would I like to do now that I have everything?”.
- Various types of information related to numerology, palmistry, astrology and tarot cards also have the right to participate in the search for your destination.