When they met, it was blooming May. She loved when he gave her flowers and read verses of her own composition. A year later, in May there was a wedding, and there were no happier people on the planet ... A heart-rending cry filled the whole apartment, plates were flying, his brain was ready to explode. “What grumpy person are you, why haven’t you been like that before?” He said, moving away from her. This is quite common in our lives. Why are some people prone to quarrels and others not. Grumpy is a sentence? What to do in this case? How to be
Who is who, or Xantippa complex
Often grumpiness is a female character trait, and I must say that it is far from the most pleasant. Men can also possess it, as a rule, feminine, and now there are many of them. What does a grumpy person mean? In a nutshell, this “phenomenon” means a person who is prone to quarrels, scolding and screaming; moreover, this type is always dissatisfied with something.
Think about whether this word comes from the word “welding”. This is the same quarrel, but if you imagine a quarrel as, say, boxing, then welding can be compared to street scuffle. Do not confuse grumpiness with boring and grunts. After all, bores and grumblers are short-distance runners, but grumpy is just a marathon runner! He will never get tired of doing what he loves to do - poison your life.
Hundreds of years have passed, and the name of the philosopher Socrates is still familiar to each of us. But did you know that this smartest and most talented person of his era was deeply unhappy in family life? The name of his wife went down in history as an example of a grumpy and ignorant wife. Her name was Xanthippus. In addition to the philosophical works of Socrates, history has preserved unpleasant and humiliating facts about him: public scenes of abuse, slop from a bucket, poured onto the bright head of the philosopher by his grumpy wife.
The name of the wife of the famous philosopher has become a concept that defines grumpiness - the Xanthippe complex. If someone fits this description, then this is a grumpy person. Behind the screams lies an insecure individual, covered with growths like kilograms of complexes. But it is likely, in his opinion, that there is no better cry and nit-picking.
Your best present is me!
Often, quarrelsome ladies are women of Balzac age. But it is naive to believe that the cause of strife is a passing youth. Basically, such women from a young age are pretty ugly, which in a certain sense of the word puts pressure on them psychologically. They are not satisfied with their appearance, and this gives rise to discontent with everyone. Understanding their failure, lack of demand and lack of competitiveness, they are very vulnerable. And a scream becomes an external manifestation of internal pain. Having reached the Balzac age, they honed their skills of grumpy to perfection.
In youth, to achieve a specific goal, that is, to get a husband, grumpy ladies skillfully camouflage their “face”, moreover, some of them even sometimes do not suspect hidden resources of their nature. It is a proven fact that a grumpy person is a kind of drug addict who needs air and quarrels, screams and even fights like air. Do not flatter yourself and hope that after satisfying his desire, peace will come in your home.
Hedgehog Gauntlets
Yes, of course, in winter you walk in mittens, they do not allow your hands to freeze, but they are so prickly! Every second is uncomfortable and unpleasant for you. This will happen in life with a person quarrelsome and grumpy. This comparison is very appropriate. What to do to the injured party is quite understandable, but what is to be done to the owner of such an inanimate character? To be left alone No, of course not, but he’s not going to change either. One can only hope that there are people in the world with strong nerves who can withstand their grumpy soul mate.