Friendship is a word familiar to us since childhood. Raising their children, it is very important to lay in their minds the basic principles on which friendship is built.
Only in this case, growing up, our children will be able to find true friends with whom they will go through life, sharing joys and hardships. Parents should explain the laws of friendship for children, because if a person does not comprehend this science since childhood, he is unlikely to be able to find
real friends in adulthood
. Friendship for kids begins with the fact that they are ready to share their toys. This is a big step in the life of a small person. Further more. Growing up, children learn and comprehend more and more principles on which strong friendship is based.
What is friendship?
So what does this concept mean? Friendship is a relationship between people that are based on mutual understanding, selflessness, love, a community of interests, sincerity and trust. Finding a true friend means finding a soul mate.
What is a friend for? With a friend, you can exchange various information, do common things, trust him with your secrets, help in difficult times, while for your part also counting on support and mutual assistance. Moreover, despite the clear "mutually beneficial cooperation", the laws of friendship still presuppose a disinterested relationship. It just so happens that when you give your love and support to your friend, you automatically get it all back. Thus, we should not help our friends in order to get any future benefits. This must be done from the heart, with a pure heart. A true friend will do the same for you.
Basic laws of friendship
The most important law is to be able to help in time in difficult times. You can communicate, go to the movies together, play joint games with ordinary friends. But you can ask for help in difficult times only to a friend. At the same time, you need to understand that it is also not worth abusing various requests. To burden your friend with such things that you can quite deal with yourself, but simply because of your laziness you do not want to do this, in no case be impossible. Otherwise, a friend will think that they are just using him, and friendship may end. At the same time, it is equally important to listen to the requests of your friend and come to the aid when necessary.
An important condition for friendship is a joint pastime. Friendship is supported by common interests, events lived together with a friend, as well as the time you spend together. It happens that best friends, due to circumstances, travel to different cities. At first they call up and try to keep in touch. However, over time, such a friendship is likely to fade.
The laws of friendship also imply hospitality. You should gladly let your friend into your home as well as into your world. Thus, you show him your trust.
It is also important not to betray friends, tells them the truth, be able to accept their comments and advice, not be greedy, be able to keep secrets, enjoy their successes, etc. You need to give your friend what you yourself would like to receive from friendship.
Friendship Laws for Schoolchildren
In addition to the basic laws that apply to any manifestations of friendship, there are several rules that relate to friendship between students. Given that you are in a certain team, you need to be able to defend a friend if classmates try to offend him. Moreover, it is always necessary to protect a friend, even in his absence, and not to let others speak badly about him. If a friend is sick, you need to visit him and help with homework. If he lags behind in some subjects in which you are well versed, you need to help βpull upβ the necessary discipline. You can also not be a jealous person and an individual. If your friend has other close friends besides you, you need to respect his right to have as many friends as he wants.
Observing the laws of friendship in elementary school, you will lay the foundation for strong relationships that can last a lifetime. Friendship from school to old age is one of the most valuable manifestations of the life of any person.
How to find a friend?
First of all, you need to understand what you expect from friendship. Are you ready to meet the demands that you put forward to your future friend? In accordance with your expectations, mentally draw an image of a future friend. Pull yourself to the criteria that a true friend must meet, and soon a person will appear next to whom you will be soul mates. Develop your friendship, value and cherish it, and then you have the chance to become truly close and devoted friends.
What is disastrous for friendship
Those who violate the laws of friendship risk losing it forever. Lies, hypocrisy, betrayal, jealousy, selfishness and other negative feelings can finally destroy the strongest relationships. Having committed some vile act and as a result of this having lost the trust of a friend, you are unlikely to ever be able to restore it again.