Each of us had to listen to the proposal from the other person to finally “decide” something, but did you sometimes think that in your soul both a feeling of love and a feeling of hostility towards the same person can peacefully coexist. Where does such duality come from? So, in the article we consider what duality of character means.
Or ambivalence
In psychology, the ambivalence of something is called ambivalence. In addition, it is worth highlighting such synonyms for duality. This is “double-headedness”, and “doublethink”, and “insincerity”, and “hypocrisy”, and “deceit”. But it’s worth talking about what a person experiences, is he really so bad? Usually a person is embarrassed by the dual sensations that he experiences with the same subject. These are complex and conflicting feelings.
The simplest example of a dual relationship is the relationship of children to their own parents. They cannot but love the main people in their lives, but at the same time they can feel a sense of shame for them, a feeling of hatred, and many other unpleasant emotions. Also, duality is the failure to make a willful decision, the hesitation between “yes” and “no”. This state of internal struggle greatly debilitates a person. People also show a dual attitude in social life. For example, they single-handedly support mothers, for example, on social networks, but they condemn a neighbor who is raising her son alone.
What does this lead to?
Duality is a feature of the teenage period, in this case the older generation should be more tolerant and wiser. Only a teenager who has no life experience is inclined to divide the world into white and black. But you should know that sometimes adults also face a similar problem. There may be several reasons. This is the isolation of man, the fear of the attention of others, even perfectionism. That is, a person striving for the ideal will obviously be dissatisfied with the result.
Each person at least once in his life had to "break in half." A mature person is able to deal with the acute moments of life, but if a double attitude brings suffering to a person and leads to nervous disorders, then he will need the help of a loved one.
And how to deal with it?
In this case, a person should understand the causes of duality. These may be fears, or there may be desires. For example, a person wants to jump with a parachute, but is afraid of heights, he has developed a dual attitude to the situation. What to do? He must understand what is more important for him - fear or desire. Only by answering this question to oneself can a person make the right decision for him.