Throughout life, people often ask deep questions, the answers to which are not so easy to find. Each person is inherently a thinker and a sage. We often create problems for ourselves that turn into whole philosophical dilemmas. We all want to benefit society and ourselves. And what is needed for this? Probably, you should be an interesting and very inquisitive person who throughout his life improves and strives for his goal. How to be interesting for society? Let's deal with this once and for all!
How to change your life to become an interesting and happy person?
Try to constantly get new knowledge, do not sit in one place. You probably have a friend or friend with whom it is incredibly interesting to have a dialogue. Have you ever wondered why? Perhaps your interlocutor lives a very interesting and eventful life - he has many interesting stories and adventures, he speaks boldly, smiles and gives the impression of a magnanimous person. Believe me, you are exactly the same! You just need to reach your potential. So let's start changing our boring life right now!
You need to radically edit your daily routine. And where, in fact, to begin? Let's imagine how you are going to work: you get up in the morning, brush your teeth, have breakfast, dress, leave the house and go to work along the already familiar and boring route. Don't you think that you have become a little robotic? Each step from this sequential chain is predictable, and this is a priori uninteresting.
Let's fix it! Waking up in the morning, do light exercises (jogging, gymnastics, aerobics, fitness). Physical training raises your mood well for the whole day - you will always be alert and positive. Then we start breakfast - eat only food that is healthy and that you like. Very banal advice, however, if you act according to this plan, you will already eliminate a significant part of the negative from the coming day. After the meal, we leave the house and choose the most unusual route for ourselves. You may be late for work for a few minutes, but your emotional reserve has been replenished with new places and impressions.
Stop giving yourself up to the black mirror
In the age of modern and information technologies, people have ceased to be “alive”. Whoever you take, everyone has gadgets with a wealth of rich and interesting features. Undoubtedly, the latest technologies have made life much easier, and this is at least interesting, but smartphones, tablets and laptops catastrophically absorb our lives. Some people are simply addicted to devices, so this hobby should be limited to some time.
You also do not need to neglect real, lively human communication, because it is here that the answer to the question of how to be an interesting person and interlocutor is stored. Turn off the phone! Let it go for a few hours, a day or a week - it doesn’t matter, most importantly, do it. In the world there is an unlimited number of activities that are waiting for you. Meet the dawn with friends and relatives, go to a Chinese restaurant, take a walk through the puddles in uninterrupted rainfall. All these absurd and sometimes infantile things make you more interesting as an interlocutor, friend or relative.
How to be always interesting? Be generous!
A truly interesting person always spreads the rumor to others. You must constantly share your findings with others. If you managed to saturate your life with exciting events, then you should always take the initiative in their narration. Sometimes those things that seem obvious to you will become a real discovery for your interlocutor. Long forgotten by you - this is something new for others. The sociable and generous person never forgets his ideas; they multiply with a geometric progression.
Never put off important matters until tomorrow. Courage and perseverance will turn your life into an endless series of feats. A dull and boring person tends to wait, and he himself does not fully understand what. A happy person does not know what an “insurmountable obstacle” is! Go to the places where you are waiting for you, where you should find yourself: there is no point in sitting on the phone - call, waiting for an invitation is also not an option - invite yourself, turn ideas into events, help others, and it will become easier to live. That is how they become the soul of the company and the whole core of society.
How to be interesting in communication?
Stop striving for the ideal, because it simply does not exist! There is nothing perfect in the world, just like there are no “normal” people. Each person has a number of shortcomings, complexes and oddities. Some suffer from this, while others do not attach any importance to this. And which of them is right? Such questions do not wait for an answer. Own shortcomings and oddities must be skillfully accepted, and sometimes proudly demonstrated! This is the concept of personality.
An interesting person is always unique, because he remains himself! His pride and personality demonstrate power and dominance within society. Stop apologizing for your difference from others, because there is nothing wrong with that. Your views and values are inherent only to you and no one else, they should not change for the sake of public opinion. This does not mean that you should not give a damn about everyone, because in this case, everyone will simultaneously give a damn about you. This means that you are proving to society the viability of your own decisions: you express what you know about, do what you know how, and live as you see fit. And you do not need a large niche for this - just a small patch of land is enough to stick your flag.
Some tips on how men behave with women
How to be an interesting man in dealing with women?
- Impress a person who is successful and not afraid of difficulties.
- Give practical advice and offer your help.
- In dealing with women, behave like a real gentleman.
- Never joke excessively gone.
- Try to express monosyllabic as little as possible.
Tips for men on how to be interesting. It is very easy to take possession of a woman if you follow the following rules:
- Show and show your respect for the fair sex, they appreciate and feel it.
- Never lie or say too much - a real man should be responsible for his words.
- Remember all the little things and details that your interlocutor describes in order to further prove that her words are not empty for you.
- Respect her boundaries, which she determined for herself about your love and attention.
- Show courage and fearlessness.
- Give her unobtrusive compliments.
- Be yourself.
Practical tips
In dealing with people, it is extremely difficult for us to understand at what point we become bored, because we really tell interesting facts and believe that this is the best thing to tell a friend or friend. If a person begins to look away and simply yawn, then try to finish your story right away, perhaps he also wants to speak out. An excessively long story about yourself, your beloved, quickly bothers you, it is not for nothing that they say that the best interlocutor is a good listener.
How to win an interlocutor?
How to be interesting in everything to keep the listener? Try to ask as many questions as possible in order to quickly find common interests. In case of victory, your dialogue will turn into mutual pleasure, where you will exchange experiences and experiences with great pleasure.
The rule of three stories
The interlocutor is rarely interested in hearing about how many megapixels are on the camera of your phone. Real life stories that once happened to you always start people. Try to always have in stock a couple of adventures from personal experience that are full of emotions and exciting events. It is not for nothing that society loves various dramas and reality shows. When narrating your story, try to keep your interlocutor in constant tension so that he eagerly wants to hear how your story will end.
Is charisma important?
How to be an interesting and charismatic interlocutor? The definition of charisma has become somewhat ambiguous. People interpret the meaning of this word in different ways, investing in it those epithets that they themselves invent. Some boldly claim that they are born with charisma, while others believe that it can be trained. But here is an interesting fact: in 1966, a team of British scientists conducted a study, which revealed that at the time of dialogue, people devote only 7% of their attention to the meaning of the words of the narrator, and the rest of the attention is directed to facial expressions and gestures. From here we can conclude that a good mood, a smile and explanatory gestures can increase the interest of your listener.