Sexual relationships are an important part of the life of every adult. And if he has completely or partially lacked sexual attraction, while he is not satisfied with the quality of sexual relations, then it is quite possible that he is frigid. Answering the question about what frigidity is, it should be noted that both women and men can suffer from sexual coldness or frigidity. However, sexual coldness of the stronger sex should not be confused with impotence.
What is frigidity in men?
Given acquired sexual coldness, the cause of this disorder most often becomes chronic stress, accompanied by mental overload and negative emotions. The presence of negative experience with the opposite sex, the failures associated with building long-term relationships with women can also influence.
Professional requirements are often very strict for a modern man; in some families, a man experiences real pressure from his spouse and relatives in the material aspect. It is not surprising that the result of a negative situation at work and at home are disturbances in the functioning of the nervous system, neurosis and chronic fatigue syndrome.
In addition, due to emancipation, women try to gain control over any situations, which becomes the reason for the man’s internal conflict with patriarchal attitudes, which, without receiving an external outlet, goes to the somatic level, and then the man subconsciously avoids independent and powerful women. In special cases, male frigidity can develop into gynecophobia (fear of women).
Unlike unmarried men, frigidity for a married person becomes a real problem, because it causes a painful reaction of the spouse, which makes his condition only worsen.
You should clearly understand what frigidity is, and know its symptoms. The first "swallow" can be considered a frequently occurring situational impotence, which occurs with erotic stimulation. However, the feeling of satisfaction after sexual intercourse will gradually decrease, and with it the brightness of emotional and orgasmic sensations.
As a result, frigidity leads to sexual disharmony in a couple, and in this case it is more reasonable to seek the help of a specialist (sexologist, andrologist, psychotherapist). In addition to correcting dysgamia, a course of restorative therapy aimed at normalizing sexual function is prescribed.
What is frigidity in women?
Often, a frigid lady may be completely absent of sexual attraction. She practically does not experience sexual arousal and orgasm. In severe cases, a frigid woman may experience pain during intimacy.
The causes of sexual coldness can be mental upheavals (family conflicts, rape, drug problems, negative childhood memories). In addition, frigidity can develop in a woman due to past inflammatory and infectious diseases of the pelvis.
Interestingly, in Hinduism, female asexuality is considered a physiological norm, and not a problem, and even more so not a disease or "underdevelopment" with various disorders of the body's functions. After all, she is able to conceive and give birth to children. The cause of frigidity is the redistribution of fertile energy in a woman’s body.
Based on the “Western” view of this issue, we can conclude that female frigidity is still a sexual disorder that should be treated. However, do not make hasty conclusions about the presence of an ailment. Often the reason for the lack of sexual arousal and orgasmic sensations may be the inexperience of the sexual partner, or his unwillingness to pay attention to a woman in achieving satisfaction from intimacy. In such cases, the partners must be frank with each other in order to avoid complications in the relationship and their termination.
If a joint solution to the problem did not work, then you should consult with specialists. A doctor, as a rule, offers to pass a test for frigidity, most often not one, according to the results of which one can judge whether there is a hidden suppressed attraction to one's sex, which was formed in childhood or adolescence and interferes with intimate, full intimate relations with men. Then you need to undergo a gynecological examination. Based on the prevailing picture, the doctor will prescribe treatment.